Accepting yourself from all sides
Let's already accept the fact that bad things happened to us and we did the wrong things. Let yourself move on with your life.
Acceptance does not hinder growth, but becomes the foundation of it. Acceptance does not hinder growth, but becomes the foundation of it. My younger sister is going to a regular school after a light private school, she will be the new girl there and naturally she has worries about it. As I explained to her recently, there is no point in adjusting to someone to fit in. You'll end up unhappy and confused about who and what you are. It only makes sense to be yourself and attract the right people to you.
We can't influence the behavior of others, but we do have the power to control ourselves. We are powerful because we can control ourselves. What we can't control and have to get used to is “the world as it is”. It's up to us to live in it, and to live the way WE want to live.
What if you've made mistakes or are afraid to make mistakes? What if you're afraid to make mistakes?
All people make mistakes, all people are lonely, all people are unloved, all people have regrets, some people accept mistakes, some people manage to fix things, some people help others after their success, no one is perfect. An important thing I realized years ago but sometimes forget (which is sad)-honesty! Honesty is the best policy in everything. Be honest with yourself and any people-you'll feel confident and good in the long run the fastest.
-What can you do honestly?
honestly do and love what you like, even if it seems strange to you-we are all different, and strangeness is often even cool.
honest about what you want and what you plan to do.
honestly try your best to be yourself.
-But what if you're not sure about your decisions?
Always give yourself time to reflect. We don't come to the truth right away, sometimes it even takes many years, you have to realize that. The more I live and see, the more I realize that risk is not so bad. Maybe taking risks is the only way into the future.
-What if you panic that you don't see results and something doesn't work out?
Teach yourself to look for options, force yourself to survive. Once you learn that, you're in control. You can be lazy, afraid and so on, but remember every time you pass this difficult line and then you will be crazy good. You can handle anything. We're all the same.
-What if you realize you're not you?
Adjusting to people, acting differently, constantly stepping out of your comfort zone is not only exhausting, but also not particularly attractive, as it turned out for me. Every time you catch yourself giving in to another person or starting to think that their thoughts and words are more important-just slow down. Slow down and be quiet, or slow down and feel what you're really thinking and feeling-for the sake of contributing to yourself. Every time you compare yourself to someone else-think about whether it's you. You'll feel so much better when you live your life following your gut. Confidence will come quickly.
If you are reading this, it means you have the desire to turn in the right direction. You have the desire to do more. The more you do, the more life will start to give back, there will be people who will support you and the world will become brighter.
Storytelling from myself:
At a certain point in my life, I realized that I was missing a lot of things. I stopped where I was, even though I do a lot of things. I have a loving family and a loving boyfriend, but that love is not enough. There's no self-understanding or acceptance. And what's worst for me-I'm getting weaker and losing my courage and enthusiasm. I started trying to feel more about myself. I started planning and saying what I wanted. Everything didn't become perfect at once, there's a long way to go, but magical stories started to happen in my life, magical people started to appear, and I started to worry less about someone's opinion. It's enough to make a “break” in yourself and the path to the very place you want to go starts to open up.